Edward Ryan tells the world he was gay, had longtime partner, was afraid of being ostracized
                                
                                
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                                    By all accounts, Edward Thomas Ryan could claim a life well-lived. As noted in his  obituary  published earlier this month in the Albany Times Union, the 85-year-old Vietnam vet and retired firefighter from Rensselaer, New York, was a beloved brother and uncle to many nieces and nephews, with various "...